WHAT IS FOR YOU, A DEAL BREAKER?

IN A RELATIONSHIP,WHAT IS YOUR DEAL BREAKER?

I have come across so many people's comment on their deal breaker  when in a relationship. You will definitely hear a lot of funny things people mention as their deal breaker. A guy once said that his deal breaker in any relationship is if the lady is not intelligent. If she cannot hold on to, maintain, or follow an intelligent conversation, then she just has to go.

But really, what should be a deal breaker for any relationship? If there should be a deal breaker for any relationship then what is the deal breaker for marriage?

Most of my ladies will quickly shout "VIOLENCE!!" or "CHEATING!!". For the guys, I have heard most of them say that their deal breakers are  "NOT GOOD AT COOKING" "NOT GOOD IN BEDMATICS!!" and "CHEATING".

Well, this is my advise, especially to young people who still have that opportunity to have a deal breaker. Please have a deal breaker at the back of your mind and watch out diligently for it. When you see it, run as fast as you can and do not look back no matter the odds.Once you are married, it is assumed that you have weed out all deal breaker and now what ever you find in there is something you can manage and tolerate. Do not bring children into the world to come and suffer the effect of broken homes.

The effect can be quite extreme in most cases.

• Insecurity
• Self esteem issues
• Usually get into the wrong hands
• Usually end up with the wrong upbringing 
• They usually end up having the same type of experience in their own marriage.
• The guys most times don't have respect for women in the society.
• Because they most times don't experience love, they do not always know how to show it and sometimes do not understand when it is shown to them.

You see? quite destabilizing effects so I beg you. Let your deal breaker be  dealt with before marriage and not after.

Waiting to hear from you.

I LOVE YOU!!